Why More Americans Over 50 Are Leaving It All Behind to Live Abroad (And How You Can Too)

There was a time when I could tell you exactly what day it was, how many meetings I had, and what time I needed to be on the freeway to beat the traffic.

Fast forward a few years and now? Some days, I have to double check what day it even is.

One year, I forgot how old I was turning. Not because I was trying to be cute or hide my age, but because I genuinely forgot and had to calculate it from my birth year.

When I told my friends, they laughed and said, "That's good living." And you know what? They were right.

That's what living abroad has given me: peace, calm, and a freedom I didn’t even know I was searching for.

And I’m not alone.

Why More Americans Over 50 Are Moving Abroad

From inflation to burnout to simply wanting a more meaningful life, many Americans over 50 are looking for something more. Not necessarily “more stuff,” but more joy, presence, and time.

And they’re finding it by moving abroad.

There’s a rising trend of retirees, career changers, and even solo women over 50 choosing to live their next chapter overseas. Why? Because it offers:

• A slower, more intentional pace of life

• Better work life balance (or simply, life balance)

• Richer cultural experiences

• Often, a lower cost of living

• And in many cases, a second chance to rediscover yourself

My Journey: Lawyer to Pastry Chef to Expat

I didn’t plan to leave everything and move to France. But after years in a demanding legal career, I shifted into the culinary world and eventually, to life abroad.

That decision transformed me.

Life here in the South of France is so calm and peaceful that I sometimes forget time is even passing. And that’s coming from someone who lived her life by deadlines and calendars.

That one birthday I miscalculated? It was hilarious, but also deeply revealing. That’s what living really looks like — when time stops being the main character and you start living.

Common Challenges (and How to Navigate Them)

Don’t get me wrong, moving abroad isn’t all rosé and beach days. There are challenges.

But if you're someone over 50, you were raised on challenges. You've lived through career pivots, family shifts, recessions, and more. This? You can handle.

Some of the most common challenges include:

• Immigration paperwork: Visas and residency applications can be frustrating, but they’re doable with the right preparation and help.

• Language barriers: If you’re moving to a non-English speaking country, learning even basic phrases goes a long way.

• French bureaucracy: It has a reputation for a reason, but patience (and a few deep breaths) are key.

• Mindset shift: Slower systems, shorter workweeks, and “closed on Sundays” can take adjusting. But it’s also part of the charm.

So... Should You Move Abroad?

If your gut has been whispering “there has to be more than this,” listen to it.

You don’t have to sell everything and move overnight. Start small:

• Visit a destination you’re curious about (stay for at least 2 weeks)

• Research visa options for long term stays

• Join expat Facebook groups or follow creators like me

• Keep a “what I want more of” list

Moving abroad isn’t an escape. It’s a step toward something.

For me, it was toward joy, spaciousness, and a kind of peace I hadn’t experienced in decades.

If you're over 50, this isn't the end. It's the beginning of your boldest, most fulfilling chapter yet.

Coming in October:
My 3 year anniversary blog and video where I spill the realest truths of what it’s like to build a new life in France. Be sure to subscribe to my YouTube channel so you don’t miss it.

Have questions about moving abroad or want help planning your own move? Book a 1:1 consultation with me. Let's make it real.